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The site seems to be quieting down a bit. I still come here once in a while to read the new posts to the Guestbook. Paul...you, your family and your friends are and always will be in my Prayers and Thoughts! Take care and God Bless!
Dear Paul, It's been a long 4 months for all of us. Dad is having an especially hard time accepting that you're gone. I can't even say the words. Even after visiting the cemetery on Christmas Eve, it still seems surreal, like a dream. We tried to put on a brave and happy face for the sake of your little cousins, but it will never be the same. Today your little brother turns 13--he misses you so much. Mike misses your online chats with him, and me, I miss your breezy, cheery chats from work. Grandma and Grandpa B. are so sad. Grandma had a dream about you the other night. She hugged you tight and wouldn't let go in her dream. If only we could send our hugs to you in heaven... Love Dad and Cathy
Ourloved ones don't leave us....they are with us always. Some we feel near us, some pop in occasional through a memory, some through our children and relatives and some to keep reality in check like Pauls website. May God Bless him!
HI PAUL ITS COUSIN JOANNE I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT YOU, JOEY, HARRY, AND JEANNIE. IT WILL BE JEANNIE BIRTHDAY ON MONDAY. MOM, ME AND THE KIDS WILLS GO TO SEE THE GIRLS ON SUN TO CELEBRATE TRACY BIRTHDAY...THEN COMES KRISTEN BIRTHDAY PARTY. I WAS SHOPPING WITH YOUR MOM AND SHE BOUGHT NIKKI AND LISA MARIE BEAUTIFUL BLUE DRESSES FOR THE PARTY THEY MATCH THE COLOR OF KRISTEN DRESS...THEY WILL ALL LOOK LIKE LITTLE ANGELS. I KNOW YOU WILL SEE US ALL THERE SAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO JEANNIE FOR US..TELL HER AND EVERYONE ELSE THERE WITH YOU WE LOVE AND MISS YOU ALL...IT'S STILL HAS BEEN VERY HARD FOR US...GRANDPA IS COMING ALONG I GET TO SEE HIM NOT AS OFTEN AS BEFORE BECAUSE MOM WENT BACK TO WORK 3 DAYS A WEEK THIS WAS HER FIRST WEEK BACK AND IT WAS HARD FOR HER BUT I TALK TO HER EVERYDAY BUT I KNOW THERE ARE NO WORDS I COULD SAY THAT WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE BUT I KEEP TRYING I KNOW THAT'S WHAT YOU WOULD WANT LOVE YOU GIVE JOEY A BIG KISS FOR ME OK...LOVE AND PEACE TALK TO YOU SOON
Paul, We have that undertsanding about birthdays, so it's OK if I'm running a little late, like usual. Not like I wasn't thinking about on your birthday, but couldn't make a call to your mother because I'm somewhat shy and possibly a little awkward, as well. So, I have this new and great idea for a story, of course, inspired by you. I once wrote this short story about what happened between us that one night in Hemlock when my parents had gone and you and I had just started to drive and how we took my mom's mini van and went to play miniature golf and then couldn't figure out how to get back home and I let you drive the mini van because i was scared to drive on the high way. But now, now that I have more skills/time/ideas/peace/a laptop, I'm thinking something else. I would say that you'll be the first to read it, but I'm sure you'll be with me as I write, somewhere, in my head, the deep recesses of my strange little mind, reading as I go along. And just so you know, I do have regrets. You were right all along. If I could do it over, I would have just gone with it (which is what I've decided to write about---this time). You were always trying to teach me that lesson and I never learned. Even now, I find myself making mistakes and postponing things and being scared or too nervous or too shy to do something and then a minute later wishing I had done it. Like slow dancing when no one else is on the dance floor. It's like, people can see me. There might be some criticism. I loved that about you. You cared what people thought, but at the same time you ended up saying, "Fuck them," in the way that you always whispered curse words, and did what you wanted to anyway. I called you a dork, but I didn't really mean it. It was admiration...because I adore you. With much love, Erica
The words, "he's a nice guy," are often and easily thrown around. In the case of Paul Battaglia, they could not be more well-deserved. I had the pleasure of knowing Paul when I was a DJ at WHRW Binghamton. I can't recall the first time I saw him, but I do remember thinking that he was one of the least likely-looking people to be involved in college radio, with his preppy style and almost constant smile. Soon, any doubts I had about him were gone. He was incredibly friendly; no ulterior motives behind that smile, just genuine sweetness and humor. What impressed me most about him was his commitment to radio. He knew fully well the responsibilities and headaches that plague general managers everywhere, but that in no way deterred him from announcing his candidacy and winning the job, as much for his capability as for his character. Working for the station with him behind the wheel was a wild, safe, and fun ride. Paul was enthusiastic, wacky, industrious and extremely tolerant. I never heard a bad word from him about anybody even if he disagreed with that person. His friends were black, white, Asian, Jewish, Muslim, gay and straight. I remember the thrill it gave him to be involved in broadcasting women's basketball live from the west gym or collecting refundable bottles and cans to bolster the station's budget. He loved the freedom that college radio afforded him, the chance to talk about world affairs, send greetings to his friends, chat with his grandfather or play any kind of music he wanted to. I lost contact with Paul when I graduated and went off to the Czech Republic, where I've been teaching English for the last few years. To be honest, I hadn't really thought about him much until a few days ago, when I heard the awful news. Since then, I've been trying to make sense of the tragedy, trying to understand like all those who knew Paul or anyone who perished on September 11th, why we have been robbed of so many wonderful, exceptional and truly loved people. There's no easy explanation, but I know one thing that comforts me when I watch the news about the events that have come to pass in Afghanistan over the last few months. After years of devastating oppression and fanatacism, movie theaters and zoos are re-opening, women are going to school, men can shave or wear their beards long, execution grounds are being transformed back into soccer fields and TV and radio are broadcasting freely again. Paul would've loved that, and he might have even understood. He was that kind of guy.
A friend of mine sent me Paul's website. I've returned to this site so many times over the past month, never quite knowing what to say. I hope that it's a small comfort to Paul's family to know that so many people have been touched by paul's life, even people like me who never met him. I can only hope that, when I pass on, I can leave behind the kind of legacy that paul has. While I'm sure he wasn't perfect, he seems to have touched so many people, and brought such joy to his family. I miss the fact that I'll never get to meet him. To his family I extend my deepest regrets that you lost such a wonderful person.
like others whom have posted in this guestbook, i never knew paul. i started reading the bio's on the nytimes.com portraites of greif website when i first heard about them. i started with A and have been reading alphabetically a little bit each day about all of those who lost thier lives that day. i've read every word in the bio's... i have cried... i have been angry... and sometimes all i can do is just shake my head in disbelief... when i read paul's bio i felt a connection to him... so far, he has been the closest to me in age... and the thing's his mother said about him led me to this website and as i looked around.. i found paul to be a man that i know i would have been friends with had our path's ever crossed... paul was 22 years old on that day america came to a screeching halt... today is my 22nd birthday. and i pray for you, paul. i pray for your family and friends. i pray for all those who lost their lives that day. i pray for their families and friends. i pray for all those who have been touched by this tragedy. i pray because i don't know what else to do. i pray because we all need healing. i wish i could have known you, paul. you have obviously made a huge impact on everyone you encountered in life. i'm saddened that your life was cut short when you had so much to give.
I happened to stumble across Paul's homepage while reading some of the memorials on CNN.com. My sincere condolences go to Paul's entire family. I was on my honeymoon when all this happened and was truly devastated even though I never had been to New York City. A few weeks ago, my husband and I decided to go down to New York to get a feel for what it must have been like being there when all of it happened. After being down there, it made it feel so real. Up until then it was just like a nightmare or a story on tv but everything changed since being there are staring at all the destruction. I personally did not know anyone who was there or who perished but now that I have read almost everything on Paul's website, I feel like I did know someone. I had to fight back the tears after reading of his expeditions and then all the wonderful things about him in this guestbook knowing that he is gone. It is a tragedy that someone so loved and cherished would have to die like that. He seemed to have the whole world ahead of him. I truly feel for him and hope that wherever he is that he knows how much he is loved. Although I did not know him, it still feels like I knew him all my life. Now I feel a sadness that I did not feel before. A sadness resulting from losing a great friend. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone who knew him and misses him. Lucy
I don't even know you or your family but somehow i feel your pain. Because we don't know someone doesn't mean we can't miss them, I miss you.
Happy Belated Birthday Paul.Our thoughts and prays are always with you. We miss you and think about you often.
I have been visiting your web site Paul for a couple months now, not quite knowing what pulled me to know you better. I just found out. You share the same birthdate as my daughter Laura, who just turned 23 on January 2nd. You'll always be in my thoughts, Happy Birthday Paul.
Happy birthday, Paul. I had to be late, as usual, or you wouldn't have believed it was from me. We all miss you, and will always love you. Aunt Joyce Uncle Ted, Chris, Jus and Jes
Friends and Loved Ones of Paul: Thank you for inspiring me with your words of love for a man I never met. God comfort you all, especially Paul's exceptional family. Here is a short meditation, in case you have not read it. God Bless, Br. Lucas --------- You say you will never forget where you were when you heard the news, September 11, 2001. Neither will I. I was on the 110th floor in a smoke filled room with a man who called his wife to say "Good-Bye". I held his fingers steady as he dialed. I gave him the peace to say, "Honey, I am not going to make it, but it is OK... I am ready to go". I was with his wife when he called as she fed breakfast to their children. I held her up as she tried to understand his words and as she realized that he wasn't coming home that night. I was in the stairwell on the 23rd floor when a women cried out to me for help. "I have been knocking on the door of your heart for 50 years!" I said. "Of course I will show you the way home - only believe in Me now." I was at the base of the building with the Priest ministering to the injured and devastated souls. I took him home to tend to his Flock in Heaven. He heard my voice and answered. I was on all four of those planes, in every seat, with every prayer. I was with the crew as they were overtaken. I was in the very hearts of the believers there. Comforting and assuring them that their Faith has saved them. I was in Texas, Kansas, Mississippi, London, Quebec, Seattle. I was standing next to you when you heard the terrible news. Did you sense Me? I want you to know that I saw every face. I knew every name - though they did NOT all know Me. Some met me for the first time on the 100th floor. Some sought me out in their last breath. Some couldn't hear me calling to them through the smoke and flames. "Come to Me... This way.... Take my hand." Some chose, for the final time, to ignore me. But I WAS THERE. Most of you were not in the Towers that day. However, if you were there in that explosive moment in time, would you have reached for Me? Would you have heard My call to follow me? September 11, 2001 was not the end of the journey for you. But someday your journey will end. And I will be there for you as well. Seek Me now while I may be found. Then, at any moment, you know you are "ready to go". I will be in the stairwell of your final moments. Meet me there. -- +∫+
Happy 23rd Birthday in heaven Paul. I miss you more than you'll ever know. You always had the answers and I spoke with you almost everyday since we were younger...I miss that smile, your laughter, your hugs. Rest in peace and have a happy birthday. Love Always, "DiPaola"
Dear Paul, Today would have been your 23rd birthday. My water broke @11:55PM on New Year's eve 1978. You took over 36 hours to put in your appearance, granted you were 6 weeks early. Every year on New Year Eve I would embarrass you by telling the story and adding how if you were going to come early anyway couldn.t you at least have been the first baby of 1979? Well, Paul for the rest of your life you were truly always first. My first born, the first grandchild on both sides of the family First to do so many things and in so many accomplishments. Today Dad, Eric and Aline visted your monument at the cemetery. Aline left you a beautiful red rose. We left you a birthday cake made out of flowers. At least it wasn't a cheescake! IMy son I love you with all of my heart not a day goes by that I don't think of all the funny things you did. Grandpa is so heartbroken. He was so proud of you . Kristen loves you, she still doesn't want to accept that you are gone from this life. I hape you are with Grandma, Jeanie& Harry and Joseph. I hope they have birthday cakes in Heaven. Love you for always, like you forever as long as I'm living my baby you'll be. MOM
Happy Birthday to one of the biggest impacts on my life. Miss you.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAUL, WE MISS YOU VERY MUCH I HOPE YOU AND JOEY ARE VERY HAPPY TOGETHER. LOVE YOUR COUSIN JOANNE, UNCLE JOE AND AUNT YOLA.
Paul - For over 3 months I have been trying to gain the courage to put something on your website. Now that I have the courage I just wanted to say that I was looking forward to the new year and saying "Good riddance" to 2001. Then I realized something... that 2001 was a better year than any yeear to come because it was blessed with your presence. After reading all the entries in your guestbook, I can see all the lives you touched. You will be missed greatly by myself and all the other members of the SOM honors program at Binghamton that were lucky enough to spend time with you.
Paulie, Words cannot express how I feel and all the things I want to say to you. I have tried to write you this letter many times and every time I have started it hurt to bad to finish. I never thought while spending New Year's last year with you at Chooch's house that it would be like this in a year. I thought life would be a lot different. I expected that as we looked at houses and apartments in the paper on September 9th that we would shortly move in together. As I spoke to you on the 10th, you were so happy. Everything seemed to be right. You just came home from Mary's and were anxious to plan our cruise. I can remember you handing the phone to your mother and her telling me about how you were helping her. I remember thinking how much I wanted to see you, but being exhausted from work, we agreed that tomorrow we would finish planning the cruise. I woke up the next morning at 7:30 and wanted to call you. I decided that instead I would take Sadie for a walk and try to surprise you for lunch. I thought I was going to make you so happy. Sadie and I heard the news from one of the regular joggers and blew it off as a tourist plane. I did not feel right, I asked another jogger what was going on and she said the second tower was hit. Paul, I was so scared for you. I tried to run home as fast as I could but I was so far away. I came home and tried to call you. All of the phone lines were busy; my phone kept ringing one ring with no answer. I was so afraid of what you were going through. I did not know what would be better, to go and find you or to wait for your call. Everyone came over and waited...I heard nothing. Justin came over and we both decided that we would do more good trying to help than waiting for your call. We stopped at your house but there was still no word from you or Harry. You would have laughed at how conniving Justin was and how he flashed our IDs to get pass pass every barricade. I thought that if I was helping someone else, someone would be helping you. Justin and I went to an area and help set up for people they were finding in the rubble. Unfortunately, they were finding no one, the only ones being treated were the rescue workers. It was amazing to see how everyone came together. I finally went outside to see the rubble, it was unbelievable...lines of firefighters and workers climbing up and down what was once the towers. After hearing one of the firefighters tell his wife that there was no way that her brother could have made it out I began to worry. Justin and I reasoned that if anyone could get out it would be you. We finally received a call from Kristen saying that they found you. But it was the other Paul Battaglia from Marsh (I can remember how funny you thought it was when you first started and found out that someone had the same name.) We went back to your house to wait. Everyone was so worried, your family went to all the hospitals looking for you. That night Kristen slept on the couches with me as we waited for you to come home. No one slept that night and the hospital calls began as soon as the numbers were posted and the phones were no longer busy. The rest has been very difficult. Paul, I want you to know how much everyone misses you, we would do anything to have you back. I miss all the calls during the day,the IMs even though I did not have a screen name, the British accent, picking you up at work or the train, planning our vacations, hearing you call me to say that you love me, you commenting on how late Armand was, hearing about your pingpong games at work, telling me what you were selling on eBay, the lastest electronic you bought, your newest and most ridiculous ideas, our suprise dates, going to the gym and then getting ice cream, going to the beach, hiking, making you get free movie tickets when the sound went out (the rest of us were to scared to), the CDs you made me, suprising you with candy and cookies,your many different voices when you read me fairy tales at night,your newest obligations, watching blind date, sleeping on you when I came home from work, the lives of your friends, what grandpa was cooking,the list goes on and on....and each one is so significant. I hope you know how truly amazing you are.You made me become a better person.I cannot believe that all of these memories began because I was so impressed that you would always go out of your way to say hello. I think of how much we have been through since that
Happy birthday, Paul. We miss you, we love you, and we'll never forget you. -- Seth
God Bless PAul Battaglia and the people of New York. You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH....AND ALWAYS REMEMBER!
Rest in peace.
Respect, Paul you were a great person. We keep on fighting for you!
Being physically so far from the tragedy, I didn't know I too had lost someone until I came across this site. There is a proverb that says "Good men must die, but death can not kill their names." Rest well, Paul Battaglia... your name lives on in thousands of breaths, hearts, and minds.
All gave some. Some gave all. God bless you, Paul.
With tears in my eyes and a heavy heart, I began to go through this site. As I ventured further, the tears and heavy heart were replaced with a sweet, warm feeling of love. This young man loved and was loved my many. Now, the whole world is stopping by. I wish Paul to Rest in Peace and to his family--march on and remember, memories become treasures. Paul, I believe, was already a treasure! I'm not very good at this sort of thing, but I couldn't leave this site without saying what was on my mind.
It's quite obvious you are a lovely person and you are greatly missed. I'm sure you live on through your loved ones. I hope you are at peace. I hope this holiday season is the worst that your loved ones will ever have to endure. At the risk of sounding selfish, I am deeply sorry I never had the chance to meet you. I am deeply sorry about everything.
I don't even know where someone can begin. I never knew Paul and have never even been to New York, but reading these pages has given me an affinity I can't put into words. At first immbolized by the sadness, this page has since renewed in me a sense of importance. From everything I've read and seen, Paul was a truly incredible person - full of the sort of vision and character that I aspire to but so often come up short on. I hope (and it certainly seems to be the case) that all of his friends and family find some solace in just having known such a person. In trying time like there, this web site restored large amounts of my faith in the internet and what it can do from a human perspective, a faith that had long been lagging. More than that, though, the website disappeared and I went inside, and saw a lot of human beings to have faith in. At this moment, that is the most important gift any of us could ask for, and it seems to me that Paul had it all along. Good luck and sympathies to everyone involved.
This site really brings home the human angle of the tragedy on the 11th of September - that the victims were just ordinary (but at the same time EXTRAordinary) men and women. Reading the site just brings home what a tragic waste it all was, someone like Paul with his whole life ahead, cut down in such a barbaric fashion. My condolences to his family and friends, Rest In Peace Paul.
It was and still is hard for the enormity of what happened on September 11 to sink in for me. Firefighters erecting an American flag, volunteers clearing out debris, these sometimes seem like meaningless footage in a media montage. But this website has reminded me of the immeasurable human loss that we suffered. Thank you, Paul's family. And Paul, wherever you are, I hope you're happy and at peace.
I am one of those who stumbled upon this site and guestbook through random links. I can't help but be saddenned by all I could on this site, particularly the guestbook entries. This shows that Paul was somone who loved and lived life to its full. I don't have much else to say apart from the fact that I am glad that this site is still up and running to present Paul's life, and I hope it will still be for the times to come. Paul, may your memory lives on.
My heart goes out to you and your family. God bless you all. You will NOT be forgotten.
Boy, just when you think you can't be affected by something anymore you get a sucker-punch. My heart aches for all those who were touched by Paul in some way or another. May the Light illumine you, and you find shade in the Creator's palm.
It's through the randomness of the internet that I find myself here and in this sort of tears for the first time in months. There is nothing like the stories of someone's friends and family to put an individual face on such a massive tragedy and as a stranger who just happened by all I can do is thank you all for telling your tales; I think that anyone who inspired such an outpouring must have been a remarkable fellow indeed. May only the best come to you from here on...
After receiving this site from a friend, I spent much time perusing the many messages, as have so many others before me. What I say may be repetition; it may go unnoticed in such an overwhelming group of positive testimonies regarding Paul's life. But what I say is heartfelt. What compliment could be higher than wishing that we could all aspire to have a character and life like Paul's? A human life is a horrible thing to waste. Paul certainly did nothing of the sort. May God's peace and saving grace be with you through the coming year.
My condolences to Paul's friends and family. It must give you some comfort to be able to come and talk to him here. peace.
My condolences and best wishes to Paul's family and friends. I only know of him through what has been written in this guestbook and on his site but he sounds like he enriched everyone's life who knew him. Rest well.
This site just hits me like a ton of bricks, understanding the kind of person he was(as best the internet can give)and seeing some of his life in front of me. Much love and peace to his family and friends. Most of all, Rest In Peace, Paul.
my heart feels for you... there is nothing i can say to make anything better. ; {
I found a link to here from MeFi, and had to look at the site. My condolences to Paul's family and friends, and may he rest in peace. I hope this site along with the other victims of 9/11 who had sites on the web are gathered together somehow and kept as an eternal memorial for all internet travellers to visit and leave their thoughts on.
I just came across this site. It is a very touching and important legacy to a life cut so tragically short. "There was never enough darkness in the world to hide the light of this one small flame" God Bless.
To Paul, his family, and friends: I did not know you, Paul, but as I sit here typing this I am crying. You seem like such a vibrant life force in those pictures on your site. So much twinkle in those eyes. This country misses you; we are truly sorry that you are gone. You have clearly left behind many people whose lives you have improved immeasurably. I hope to shake your hand in heaven. Craig
I didn't know Paul. I was just flipping around on the net and wound up here. I have a knot in my throat now. Peace, Paul. May all of you who knew him and loved him get through ok.
To Paul's family: I never knew Paul but by reading the things posted here, I know he was special. I just wanted to send good wishes for what must be a very difficult holiday season. May 2002 bring healing for all of you.
Sad. My prayers are with you Paul. R.I.P. Courage to those you touched & left behind.
Dear Paul -- Words can't describe how much we miss you. Every day is spent wanting you to come home, wishing we could see you one more time. We stare at people on the street or subway because there is some element of them that reminds us of you -- a haircut, glasses, a gesture, or a tuneless wistle. The other day we played an old home movie for Aline -- from the first Christmas we had the video camera. The one where you were singing "Jingle Bells" in front of the Christmas tree while your sister, still new to walking, staggered around in front of you, and your singing became more and more enthusiastic until that big, theatrical finish, arms spread wide and all smiles. You will always be with us, both the enthusiastic little kid, and the enthusiastic, loving, thoughtful young man you became. God bless you Paul. We love you.
Paul, I just wanted you to know that it's christmas now, and I miss you man, and I wish I could have told you I loved you and gave you a hug while you were alive, just so you could know how funny I thought you were and how proud I would be if I could be even half the man you were one day. I think it would put a really big smile on your face to see all these people on this page. I remember how much your brother loved you, how he wouldn't want to do anything at all in camp but see his brother, and be with you. Most of my thoughts and prayers are with your family today. God Bless
This is for all of us who have to face Christmas without Paul. I am going through all the motions. I know Paul would have wanted that. Still it is very painful. He would have eaten at my house this Christmas Eve. How do we face the day without him? Let us take in comfort in the real meaning of the season. God came to the earth as a man...to lead us to Him. His love for us is passionate, and because he overcame death, so will we. We can be sure that we will see Paul again, and that our pain will one day subside. Joyce (his aunt)
My deepest sympathies are extended to the Battaglia family and all those who were so fortunate to have called Paul "friend". I read the Portraits of Grief on the New York Times website each and every day and was moved by Paul's portrait. He was so obviously a very dear and special person to so many. Now, three months later, the sorrow and pain I feel for those who lost loved ones is still very strong and very real. My sincere hope for the Battaglia family and their wide circle of friends is continued love, strength and support for each other and brighter days ahead for all. I am so deeply and profoundly sorry for your loss but I hope you can take some solace in knowing that you will all be reunited with Paul at the hands of our Eternal Father. God Bless You All.
I'm Paul's Mom From time to time I come to guestbook & read notes from all who have left messages. Today it is exactly three months since the attack. We are still in a stae of shock & grief. His entire family is feeling he pain of this loss from our lives. His siblings are facing a bleak Holiday this Christmas. Paul was always so happy & joyous and he shared that with al of his large extened family & friends. Today Iread the note from Italy how wonderful that this website can be viewed around the world and that we can feel the support from all around the globe this Christmas season it is especialy needed. Just a reminder we have established aan ongoing scholarship @ Regis Hs in Manhattan it is called the Paul J Battaglia Scholarship Fund @ Regis. Each year $1,000 will be given to a graduating Senior that exhibits those special Paul like qualities of fun, compasion and zest for life that characterized Paul. In this way he will go on living . We hope that his friends and family who would have gotten Paul a gift for the Holidays will continue to give to this fund each year. Paul loved Regis and what better way of keeping his name alive thatn by donating to his fund. Love to all those who visit this site and to his friends who loved him . Warmest wishes Elaine
It was midnight here in Italy, and I was browsing the New York Times website exactly 3 months after the WTC attack. Reading some of the "Portraits of Grief", I found this Italian last name, Battaglia. It was all too inspiring that I decided to read Paul's story, which in turn sent me to his website. What an experience it was to me! I am 43, and for the first time in my life I have "met" someone I had never met before - and, sadly, someone I will never meet in my life (at least in this earthly, mortal life). Yet this has been an incredibly intense and real encounter, more real and rewarding than an "ordinary" encounter. Indeed it was extraordinary, because visiting Paul's website in every detail, reading practically all of the guestbook, was like putting together a myriad of pieces which formed the magnificent mosaic of Paul's life - just like the St. Mark's mosaics he saw in Venice last year. This website should (and will!) live forever, it is a treasure of love for all humankind, it is Paul's ultimate gift to all people and to this world, a sweet consolation for those who loved him and who knew him - and a compelling inspiration for those who only meet him on the Web, today and in the future. Live on Paul, you have taught us a great lesson - which is only proper for a bright kid and a generous young man. Love.
It is amazing how oneyoung man can touch the lives of so many people who he didn't know or didn't know him. I am Paul's grandparents cousin andknew him as a child and met him last year as an adult. My generation of cousins feel so badly for Paul and Cathy and for his grandparents Annette and Paul. I look into their eyes and I see the sorrow that they are feeling and wonder if they will ever be the happy people they were before 9/11. My 95 year old mother mourns his passing and says a rosary for him everyday. I pray that this web site will always be continued, as I will read it every week and never loose sight of the tragedy that has hit our country.
I never had the blessing of meeting Paul. I found his name while browsing on the internet and looked up his site. I am truely sorry for the Battaglia family and all of those who knew and loved Paul. Reading all the comments posted by those who cared for him, paint what a truely beautiful person he was. I am sorry I never met him. I find solace in the quote, "Never fear the unknown future to a known God". I believe God has a reason for everything. He must have had an extremely important job for Paul to do to call him home. We need more people like Paul. May his short life be an inspiration for those around, not to take a single moment for granted. Smell the roses, stand in the rain, read a book, go to the movies, tell those around you how much you love them, because you never know if today might be your last. God Bless America and all of God's children. Take care of each other.. Jocelyn
God bless you Paul and thanks for making my experience at the H a wonderful one.
I read the NYT Portraits of Grief everyday, I don't feel right if I don't. Paul's site was one of the only "blog" sites I saw listed, I visited right away. I used to work in the WTC, and had many "life events" there - birthdays, excursions, etc. Paul's goodness and enthusiasm for life comes through on his site, and his excitement for his job through his photos. I downloaded the page to save them forever. Reading the entries from the initial days was haunting, as hope gave way to despair, then as despair gave way to resolve that Paul would always be remembered. I hope that whoever is running this site keeps it forever...or that the company that owns the space keeps it going forever so that people can remember Paul, and maintain their connection.
Dear Paul, this is a last greeting from your "cousins" in Germany. We met when we visited your family in summer '95. At that time you were looking forward to enter high school. We still can't believe what has happened on September 11th. This extend of terrorisms and violence is beyond the scope of what we can imagine. Our deepest sympathy is with your family and your friends. We hope and pray that your live and those of the other victims are not just thrown away but will help the world to redress the real reasons for the terror. We know this is still a vision but ... we shall overcome some day ... Love Bettina, Dieter, Jan, Leon
I am another person who feels compelled to read every eulogy written about the victims of this horrible tragedy. Paul's story was in The Oregonian last week, so I visited his website. What an amazing person. My heart is broken for your loss, as well as the other victims and their families and friends. Please know that we will never forget Paul and every other person lost on September 11.
Someone has already written in this guestbook, "My heart breaks yet again as I visit Paul's site." When will my heart ever stop breaking? I keep coming back to Paul's site, and it's never any better. And all I am is Paul's friend's brother. I think that shows how amazing Paul was. Paul was a brother and a boyfriend and an incredible man. I'll never forget the candles around his picture in Union Square a couple days after his death. I was so moved I could not stay. Paul, even I will forever miss you.
Please accept my deepest sympathies on this terribly tragic loss. I did not have the honor of personally knowing Paul; rather, I knew him as the friend of a friend while I attended school at SUNY Binghamton in 1996. I remember the sparkle in his eyes, the charming ruddiness in his face, small kindnesses like holding doors open for others. Looking over this site it's obvious that Paul is beloved to so many, and that his wit, creativity and kindness have touched people from all over the world. God bless.
Paul, You were a senior at Regis while I was a freshman. We didn't know each other well at all, but I still remember how friendly you were in the hallway, and the "Battaglian Commentary" that made me laugh whenever The Owl came out. You have obviously touched many people's lives, and the world is much worse off for your having been taken from us. God bless you. My heart goes out to your family and loved ones. -mb
Every day I read the personal stories, and every day I cry. The enormity of this tragedy is so overwhelming, God Bless each and every victim and their loved ones. Thank you for keeping this site active.
May you rest in peace! God Bless
John and Elaine, I am so sorry to hear about what happened to your son, Paul. Sue Daubman made me aware as she was contacting people for a reunion of ITL/CME. While it seems like yesterday to me (when I was working for John at ITL/CME), I remember Paul when we produced one of those medical videos so many years ago that John had Paul appear in. Your son stayed in my mind all these years later since I was so impressed at how mature and smart he was for a 9 year old. After looking at your site, it's amazing to me how much time has truly passed, and it appears quite certain that he grew up to be a wonderful young man. It's nice to find that he had so many great experiences and dedicated friends in this short time - and really left a lasting impression on everyone he met. It's a tribute to his family that he turned out to be such a caring and successful person, but not surprise to me - his dad was the nicest and, to this day, best boss I've had. God bless all of you. My wife and I give you our deepest sympathies.
The image of Paul's warm smile every morning on the 100th foor resurfaces and remembering his "terrrr-ific!" will always bring tears to my eyes, no matter how much time has passed. I still remember those 2-hour long 'luncheons' the few of us cherished when we sat on the steps right outside the mall @ South Street Seaport. I miss you, Paul.
When John F. Kennedy died, the whole world remembers where they were and what they were doing. Paul, when you died the same thing happened. You must have been something really special. I want to thank your family and friends for sharing you with us. And, in return, we can all promise never to forget you.
Paul and I were close friends from 6th-8th grade. I haven't seen Paul for 9 years but reading the Times article and these messages from family, friends and strangers from around the world has brought me to tears. Paul and I lost touch shortly after I moved to Connecticut to attend HS, but I will never forget the fun we had the short time we were close; prank calls to classmates from his summer house, trading baseball cards, laughing at our own jokes, fighting epic battles on Sega Genesis and teaming up to work on school projects are just a few of the fond memories. I still have the going away present he had made for me. It was a framed news headline that was altered to read, "Breaking News: Mary Kate O'Rourke Asks Want Gum?" For those of you who have no idea what I'm talking about, it was one of those inside jokes only a few knew about and cherished. You know, the ones we put in our yearbook quote. I'm glad I had the opportunity to share those jokes with Paul. Whether it was making a solar powered cell for the 8th grade science fair with our friends John, Mike and Matt or a mock news broadcast we co-anchored from the basement of his house, Paul always knew how to have fun and he always knew how to go about making everything perfect. I recently found the tape of our broadcast debut and it is no surprise to me that Paul made such an impact at WHRW. He was a natural. Paul was always positive. His persistence and confidence was inspiring. He was always looking for a solution and was always willing to help. He may not have always been treated as well as he treated others, but he never lost confidence in himself. He always held his head high and for that alone I admired him. Paul, I hope you're still making those around you smile. I just wish I could have spent more time with you and made more of an effort to keep in touch. God Bless Paul's family. May Paul always be with everyone he touched so dearly.
My deepest sympathies to Paul's family and friends. While at Regis we only knew each other in passing, he ALWAYS was making me laugh, especially during his conversations with Mr. K. He coined the the nickname "Baby Steph." I think he'd still remember that.
God Bless you, Paul.
I'm a Regis grad ('01) and an writing to express my sorrow for Paul's death. He was one of thousands who died, and visiting this webpage gave me a glimpse into a life that was cut short ... the Regis community mourns the passing of a wonderful member of its community as America mourns the loss of thousands. To Paul's family, I am very sorry for your loss. To Paul ... God Bless. Owl Droppings wasn't the same after you graduated. To everyone else: in the same way that we lost people we love in the WTC attacks, people in Afghanistan are dying because of our bombs. Never let yourself slide into thinking of such deaths as "collateral damage."
I am writing here for the second time; I visit this page every day and am moved more and more each time. I knew Paul for several years through school and although I was not close enough with him to be considered part of his inner circle of friends, I admired him greatly as a common acquaintance and was not shy about telling him so. I just found two books from my sophomore year at Regis that I bought from him, each with his name and comments written all over them. They are worth more to me now than ever - small personal reminders of an enormous individual. Again I say to the Battaglia family, my thoughts and prayers are very much with you; I think about Paul always and try my best to emulate the goodness that he radiated in everyday life. This world badly needs more Paul and less hatred.
I cannot begin to imagine the pain and suffering you and your family has endured in your loss of Paul. Words cannot fill the emptiness in your heart. Though reading the portraits in grief daily brings me to tears, I appreciate you and all of the other families sharing the life of your loved one with us. Reading about their lives has helped me deal with my memories of the first few nights at ground zero. I will never forget the devastation, sadness or helplessness I felt. Paul's website is a wonderful tribute to his life and has brought a face to this horrific tragedy. Your bravery in sharing Paul's life with the world is inspiring. My prayers are with Paul, your family as well as all of the victims of 9-11-01.
I live in California and yet was with New York as the tragic events of Sept. 11 unfolded. I've been reading the NYTimes every day and, like others here, read all of the portraits of grief. I lost a brother in an accident a couple of years ago and I know that the lives of Paul's family and friends will never be the same. But I hope, for all the victims' families and friends, that the love they share with each other will help them find peace with the passing of time.
I just had my last radio show ever with whrw, and as i reflected upon everything that's happened, I couldn't help it but to think of all the people you come across in such a close, tight-knit environment like our little corner of the world located in the mezzanine level of the university union. one of the last things i saw as i left the h for the last time was a poster of paul that was put up by our general manager mike styne following the news of the sept. 11th attacks...I looked at the picture for a long time, and seeing paul smile made me realize that with that smile he had touched so many people while he was alive, and he continues to do so today. Reading all of the latest posts on this guestbook talking about how these people who never even knew paul were touched by by his life and by that smile, it just makes me proud that i was able to know him, and even though we weren't the greatest friends, I'd give anything to see that funky GM smiling in the radio station lobby once more, or to have him make me laugh hysterically as I listened to his show as he called up various friends and random campus people, all in the name of friendship, fun, and entertainment...Paul will always be missed, but I will also cherish those moments I have to remember him by for the rest of my life.
I, too, am a Times reader, and saw the story about Paul.... To his family and friends, God Bless.
Paul .... what more can be said....be thou at peace.
You have given us the loveliest gift of all in this unsettled holiday season--the chance to meet Paul. I remember my college radio days with pride--now I'm a Music Director in upstate NY--& seeing the photos of Paul & the crew at his station reminded me how young Paul was, and how full of drive, and spirit, and conviction we all were at 22. Our world is now smaller without Paul, but we are all better for meeting him here. May you have peaceful holidays. Bless you.
I am so sorry about Paul. He seemed like such a wonderful person. I know the world will not be the same without him.
I share a common privilege with Paul having graduated from Regis High School in 1986. I was drawn to St. Ignatius for a memorial for Paul and other alumni and relatives of alumni who fell in the tragic events of September 11. It was beautiful to hear the words spoken for Paul. I felt a true connection to Paul and all that were there to honor his memory. I was born in Brooklyn, raised on Staten Island and educated where I now make my home in Manhattan. I still haven't fully accepted the events of that day in September, I can't begin to understand the pain Paul's family must be enduring. I was at work this past Wednesday when I realized Paul's picture was in the New York Times. I sat on my trading desk moved to tears, overwhelmed by the enormity of what had happened. Here was a brother, here was a friend, a son, just simply trying his best, trying to do the right thing, in his hometown, just miles from where we both attended high school, taught by the same teachers, laughing and playing within the same walls. How proud I am to be able to call him a Regis brother. When I think of Paul and others I knew who perished at the World Trade Center I have an extraordinary feeling of peace. That peace warms my sorrow like a warm blanket, for I know they are with God. I continue to look at the skyline that for so many years was my friend. I keep searching for my friend. Where has my friend gone? My mind remembers days traveling across New York harbor on the Staten Island ferry on very foggy days. We would be passing the Statue of Liberty and look to the city for the beacons of our modern metropolis. Yet, the buildings were shrouded in fog, making it impossible to see the upper floors of the Twin Towers. We knew they were there, we just couldn't see them. That's they way I remember all those who we lost on that day. We know they are still with us but we just cant see them. I think of them all gathered on the top of the towers on a foggy day with the top of the towers poking through the band of clouds and fog that keep them shrouded from our view. Beautiful sunshine is in abundance above the clouds at the top of the towers and peace is at hand. Just because we can't see them doesn't mean they're not there. Rest easy Paul, we'll all be with you some day, at the top of the towers above the clouds. May God bless your family and take special take of them during this holiday season. We will always remember your light. Deo et patriae.
I am another NY Times reader. I am so moved by Paul's website. What an extaordinary man - full of love and life. I worked in the WTC - 92nd floor - when I was his age (almost 2 decades ago). I remember how proud I was of my cubicle - my view. My condolences to all of Paul's friend's and family - you have suffered a terrible tragic loss. I wish you peace in your memories, you have so many wonderful ones of Paul.
I thought that i was one of the "few" who read portraits in grief daily....i can see that is not true.and i am sure that i am not one of the few MOVED daily by the sweet humanity so senselessly lost on 911.Pauls guestbook is a very touching tribute to his life and will stand as a comfort to his family...he was obviously an example for all of us to follow.thankyou for keeping the web page up....it was difficult to read the frantic messages on 911 and to follow....but it puts a real FACE among the thousands of real faces to this my sincere comfort in your loss
My heart breaks yet again as I visit Paul's website. Although we never met, I know that God's light is shining on Paul. I will keep his family and friends in my thoughts at this impossibly difficult time.
Similar to many of you, I, unfortunately never knew Paul either. However, now that Thanksgiving has passed, I find that I am so incredibly thankful for the past 2 hours I have spent on this site "with Paul", and everyone who knew and loved him so deeply. I too, searched every corner of his web site longing to know more- to know him. He seemed to be such an amazing young man, full of life and with the ability to grasp people with his charm - although this is a horrible tragedy, through his story and the life he led, he is reaching thousands of people worldwide. He lives on- his story lives on, and his life will continue to impact the hearts of Americans forever. He shows us to live life to the fullest, to take advantage of everyday- the large things and even more, the small things- His life was short, but with everyone supporting his memory together, we can help him to live on. My heart goes out to all of you who were fortunate to know such a man...and to those of you who are moving on holding his memory high.
I knew Paul in Binghamton. We were't very close or anything but I knew what type of person he was. The main thing that I remember about Paul is that he was always so upbeat, positive and funny. He was always making jokes and laughing. That is the way that I would like to remember Paul. So I will remember Paul in Binghamton, in the honors meetings, joking around with Goldberger, with a smile on his face, and thank him. I thank him for the opportunity to reflect upon my own life. I guess I say goodbye to you now. May your friends and family have peace and may your memory and spirit never be forgotten.
I, too, am a Times reader. Each day I read the stories of those missing and have come to realize that I will never forget them, for each has held an important place in the lives of many, as Paul did. I can add little to this guestbook but my sorrow at such a loss. My thoughts and prayers tonight are with the Battaglia family. Peace be with you all.
I didn't know Paul. I happened to be browsing the WEB a little tonight and stumbled onto this site. I feel so bad about what has happened and want everyone that reads this to know that we are all friends and almost brothers because of what happened. My heart goes out to the freinds and to the family members that are left. I'm sorry, I don't know what else I can say. God Bless
Paul, Thanks would never fully express my debt to you for what you have given to me and will continue to contribute to my life. This Thanksgiving is all the more bittersweet. I miss you, pal. Love always, Brian
Regards, all the way from Bangkok, Thailand.
I like alot others read the " Portraits of Grief " To the family of Paul and all others lost in the WTC Please know all my prayers are with you and your loved ones ... I think its a beautful tribute to Paul to be able to read and see his pictures on his site ... God Bless Paul
I feel it is my duty to read the " Portraits of Grief" each day in the New York Times as a rememberance of each individual who perished on September 11th. I think it is wonderful to have Paul's web site available to us. I hope someone close to him maintains it so he will live on with us forever. God bless you, his family and friends. You are in my thoughts and prayers this Thanks Giving night and always.
To: The Family of Paul Battaglia From Josep Battaglia Each day I read the NYTimes Bio section of those lost in the WTC tragety. I do each day hoping that I will not see the name of a friend or relative. Luck was with me up until yesterday when the name Paul Battaglia jumped out and I was sadden to see his name. Not ever knowing him or his family, the thought came to me that maybe he....and his family are somehow related. The are some 3800 Battaglia's in the US and it is most unlikely. My family emigrated in the 1880's settling in Pittsburgh, have come from Sicily. Connection or no connection, Losing Paul Battaglia is a great loss. My condolences to his family and those who had the joy of knowing him.
May you rest in peace.............. God Bless You and your family.........
to paul and the battaglia family, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
To have the privilege of reading these messages, of learning about Paul from the words of those who knew him and loved him - it has been an honour. From the NY Times tribute to this website, such a beautiful eulogy for one lost too soon, in such a terrible tragedy.
I have been touched by the poignant images of Pauls' cubicle on his web page. We need to be reminded of the individual human loss of September 11. I hope that this web page will be maintained as a tribute to Paul.
Hello Paul! Thank you for sharing these wonderful pictures with the world. May you rest in peace. We will never forget.
Hey Paul -- God Bless. Take care.
I read the stories of the missing in the New York Times every day, so I was able to read Paul's story and visit his website. Thank you for keeping his site going. I will not forget.
I know you will never read this but somehow I think you know that many people mourn the passing of you and your colleagues and WTC neighbors. May you rest in peace along with all the others who perished on 9/11.
I write this not only to you, but to all the others who can no longer see or hear or feel, and who are missed by all who knew them. Perhaps a record will be made of this guestbook, and presented to the families of the Missing. May your memory give comfort to all of them, everywhere.
Hi Paul. I was reading the memorials in the NYTimes and went to your website. What a great view of NY. I am glad the site is still up and wish your family the best. It seems they lost a lot when they lost you. I hope your memory brings them some solace.
thank you for these lovely shots of NYC from WTC...I can't express how I feel...but I'm so grateful
Hi Paul, i came to this site becuase i saw the NEw YOrk TImes, although this whole incident has passed it is still in our mind and hearts, i feel deeply in pain each time i think of someone who could not have made it out alive, hope that you Rest in Peace and hope your family would feel better soon. i do not know how to express my sorrow and pain... but i hope everything would be okay soon. RIP
You led a good life Paul and achieved so much. I read this site with much interest - your work, your trip, your family and the graduation. Deepest sympathy to the Battaglia family in this time of sorrow.
Happy Thanksgiving, Paul. This is a wonderful website ... wish I had gotten to know you before this ... I hope you are at peace ... Words can not describe the sorrow that we all feel ... There are definitely a LOT of questions I am going to ask when I see God in person ... All of your family are in my prayers ... Peace be unto you ... Peace be unto us that are left behind.
Like everyone else today, I read the portraits of grief in the NY Times and noticed the website address for Paul. I saw his college pictures, his office, his trip to Europe, his friends, and his humor. It is so poignant to see the request to add to his guestbook.I am sitting at my computer with tears and can't think what to do. I can only offer my deepest sympathy to his family. A young man just beginning his journey through life. What a good and enjoyable friend he would be. Tonight I will say a prayer for Paul. Aloha.
I am deeply moved. My heart and thoughts are with Paul's family and friends.
Out of 50,000 people in the WTC, about 47,000 made it out. I feel that those who did not get out stayed behind to make sure that others did first. From what I've seen in this guest book, I wouldn't be surprised if Paul spent his last minutes in this life doing just that. I'll bet Paul will be watching over you this Thanksgiving.
Paul, I read about you in the NY Times today, and wanted to find your spirit on the web. May you live forever in the hearts of all who loved you. God's peace to you. --Geoffrey
Reading about Paul in the NY Times today and his wonderful energy moved me to look up his web site. Since September 11, I have made the daily portraits of grief a ritual for me ,to honor and remember those lost. The portraits and snapshots bring to life, one more time, the faces and stories and lives behind the horrific numbers. I was heartbroken to see those pictures of Paul's workplace and his good times with friends. I adored his journal writings. We have lost yet another great person in this tragedy. I could feel his joy of being alive and grateful even though I did not Paul. On this Thanksgiving Eve, I send out love and healing to his family and friends from out here on the West Coast, just a bit after sunset. God Bless--Love, Rebecca
I too came to this site after reading the memorial in the New York Times today. Tho I did not know Paul, I can tell that he was a wonderful person with a warm, loving family. You need to know that you are in the prayers of thousands of Americans across the country.
Like the many others who have posted on this guestbook, may I offer to you my sincerest sympathy for your loss. Paul, looks like he was a lot of fun, God must have needed someone who had a good head on his shoulders. God bless you.
i am quite possibly the closest thing to a regis girl: a sister w/both brothers currently at regis, a girlfriend w/her boyfriend and both his brothers all regis grads (1 w/paul's graduating class), and a privileged witness to the enduring, amazing spirit that is "a regis boy." paul's profile in the nation challenged, combined w/the heartfelt messages his family and friends have left, have shared w/the world glimpses into his life. the battaglia family and the regis family should be proud... yet again, another regis boy turned into a "man for others."
To the family of Paul Battaglia, Thank you so much for putting Paul's website address on the touching NY Times tribute. I make it my daily ritual to read those tributes and on so many occassions am deeply moved. No more so than after reading todays tributes,and coming here to this website. I'm so sorry for your family's loss.
After reading Paul's story in the New York Times, I felt I needed to go to his website. I looked through his pictures regarding his trips... I have to say how sorry I am. I didn't lose anyone I personally knew in these terrible attacks, but I feel as though I did. I've always been very good at handling emotions but now it's like a gate that's been broken and the flood won't stop. To Paul's family... I'm sincerely sorry. It was comforting reading about him and his trips and looking at all his pictures with him laughing in them... To Elaine... as a mother, my heart aches for you. I read your post... to hear you describe what you miss about him, emotionally and physically, makes me a better mother. I sat and cried as I read what you wrote, because even though my son wasn't taken from me that day, I know the love and the bond that a mother and her son have. Today, you made me a better mother. You made me realize the little things I take for granted, like the kisses, will someday be gone. Thank you.
To Paul's family: I want to express my deepest sympathies to you at this most difficult time. Paul sounded like a wonderful man. May he rest in peace. God Bless Us All!
Paul, your spirit and story has drawn so many of us to visit your site today. Certainly, those of us who didn't know you, feel your presence and need to hold out our hands and hearts to you and your family. May you continue to be an inspiration to your loved ones and to the rest of us who have been touched by your life and story. Rest in Peace!!
i have read the profiles in the NYTimes every day they have been available and i am thankful that i can express my condolences for the people listed there including Mr. Battaglia. it's theraputic to read all of the wonderful stories and remembrances and to put a face to all those that we were present at the horror we witnessed. best wishes to everyone who knew Mr. Battaglia more personally. you are not alone with your grief.
I read about Paul in the NY Times. I offer my most sincere condolences. I am sorry for your loss. May the good Lord bless and keep you.
I also read the NY Times article, and am very sorry for your loss. Please try to have a nice Thanksgiving, and even though we don't know you, you are in our thoughts and prayers this Holiday season. God Bless You..
Like many others who have posted their comments today, I found out about Paul through the NY Times profile. It pains me to look at the pictures of his cubicle now. Though I never met him, I feel lucky to know a little bit about him now. We will never forget what happened.
I also read about Paul on the NYTimes online today, and had to visit his site. More than one message brought tears to my eyes as well. I'm praying for your family, and God bless you.
Like many others today I was moved to go to Paul's website after reading the portrait in the NY Times. I first didn't want to go to the website because I felt like I was invading his and his family's privacy. But then I read the messages other total strangers sent in. I read previous messages and looked at some pictures and it became obvious to me that Paul touched a lot of lives. I'm sure the holidays will be difficult for everyone who knew him but I am also sure that those that knew him are thankful every day that he was a part of their lives and always will be. Paul's family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy, Susan Terry
I know I can't add anything meaningful to what's been said already about Paul, but I will never forget reading the Times tribute to him and I am deeply saddened that such a man is lost to the world. I wish his family the best for the future.
After reading Paul's profile in the NY Times I felt I just had to visit this site. Based on the comments left by other visitors, he was a young man who was loved & cherished by those who knew him. I, like many others never had the privilege, but now he along with his family will always be in my prayers. God bless you all.....
It has been a short while since the WTC disaster and many have gone back to their way of living. I have tried to distance myself from much of the event - my mind could not possible absorb that much pain. Looking through Paul's life brings healing - He seemed to be such a happy, wonderful person. Thank God for Paul..God bless his family - he continues to live on in the hearts of complete strangers. Sept 11 may bring back painful memories but we remember those like Paul and suddenly it is no longer a cloudy day out there. God bless you all
I read about Paul in the New York Times today. I just want everybody in New York, especially Paul's family, to know that people of the West Coast are thinking and praying for you.
I like most saw Paul's profile in the Times, which is what brought me to his website. I did not have the privaledge of knowing Pual, but from reading all of the comments people have left and looking at how Paul worked on his website, and what a spectacular job he did, I can tell along with most what a truly wonderful person--one whom I wish I had known. Like somebody else had said perfectly, I feel honored to have had this glimpse into his life. GOD BLESS all of his family and friends.
I feel strange writing in this guestbook since I didnot know Paul and only read his story in the NYTimes today. After reading the story I wanted to go to his web page immediately and see the "cloudy day" picture. And then I found the guestbook...as I read all of the thoughts about Paul...I cried for only the third time since September 11. The tradgedy of September 11 seems so unreal to me, like a movie, and after reading about Paul that day becomes painfully real. I am so sorry that Paulwas in the WTC. He seemed like a fantastic and funny guy. And he will obviously remian alive in everyones thoughts.
Like many others here, I saw Paul's tribute in The New York Times and I felt compelled to visit the site. To Paul's family and friends, I extend my deepest sympathy. We will be thinking of you in our Thanksgiving prayers.
I also read your story in the NY Times, and after reading this moving guestbook, feel like I knew you. I, too, will always remember you, Mr. Battaglia. Be strong.
I read Pauls NY Time Profile and wanted to see his website. I also want to send my condolences to his family and friends. May God bless his family.
I, too, read Paul's New York Times profile and wanted to see his site. Seeing the pictures of Paul with his friends and family has given me an even greater sense of what's been lost.
I just wanted to add my condolences to Paul's family. I did not know Paul, but I am a Binghamton alum, and remember seeing his name. He obviously was an incredible person. I am so greatful that I found his web site (through the NY Times story), and got to feel just a small part of who he was.
After reading about Paul in today's NY Times, I too, found myself heading directly to his web site. I sit at my desk now, stirred by all this, and feeling like I've lost a good friend. Paul, you will not be forgotten...
I also saw Paul's profile in the Times, which is what brought me to this site. From reading the comments people have left and looking at the work that Paul himself did here, I can tell he was a truly wonderful person--one whom I wish I had known. I feel honored to have had this glimpse into his life. Strength and love to his family and friends--we are all grieving with you.
I never knew Paul but decided to visit this site after reading about him in the NY Times. It is impressive how many lives he has touched. My heart and prayers go out to all of his family and friends. You will be in my prayers.
May the road rise to meet you, may the wind be always at your back, may the sun shine warmly on your face, and the rain fall softly on your fields, and until we meet, may God hold you in the palm of His hands. God bless you and your family.
Though I didn't know Paul directly, after reading his story in the NY Times, I had to visit. Seeing the photos of him on his site made me realize how many lives he touched and how many wonderful memories everyone has of him. Though he is no longer with you on this earth, he still watches over his family. God Bless you and may Paul rest in peace.
Dear Paul, Tho' I never knew you personally, I sought comfort in your web site. Watch over your family as they try to understand. To Pauls Family: I shall keep you in my prayers and never-ending thoughts. In God's Arms, Robin NYC, NY November 21,2001
I also came to this site after reading Paul's memorial in the NY Times. I extend my deepest sympathy to Paul's family. Please know that even though we are strangers, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Also just read the memorial in the NYTimes. Although I didnt know Paul , as another former Binghamton graduate, and one who worked in 7WTC, I feel a little connection. I express my deepest sympathies to Paul's families/friends and others for their loss.
I just saw your memorial in the New York Times. I went to this web site (like probably thousands of others soon will) and thought about you for a moment, Paul. I didn't know you or your family, but you're all still in my prayers.
I got to Paul's site via the Binghamton University homepage. I would just like to send my condolences to Paul's family and friends. God Bless you all.
I don't know if writing in here again is too much ... I just needed to. Last night I had a very special dream involving Paul. I don't remember as much as I did while I was in dreamy-land, but I "do" know that when I woke up, I felt a sheer sense of comfort -- Paul and I were talking, we were smiling, just spending some quality time together --- letting each other know that we were both okay. I miss you Paul. But I will continue to think of you often :-) Love, Greg
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You have our deepest sympathy. We must go on...
Great job Paul.
I did not know Paul personally, but he was in my graduating class of 2000 at Binghamton. We were both in the School of Management and certainly has a few classes together. I have visited this site numerous times over the past month and a half. I want to send my deepest condolences to Paul's family and friends. Like Paul, I am originally from Brooklyn, and then attended Binghamton. It hit me hard that someone with a path so similar to mine is no longer with us because of such unspeakable evil. I will never forget that I lost a classmate in this tragedy, and someone I wish I had known. I pray that justice prevails over those who committed these horrifying acts. Words just cannot express how terrible I feel about a great person losing his life for no reason. To Paul's family and friends, I am overcome with sadness for your loss. Please know that Paul will be remembered, even by those who knew him for just a short time.
As a fellow Binghamton alumni - '98, I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to Paul's family.
Paul's grandmother and grandfather Annette & Paul are my first cousins.. I remember when Paul was born, how proud they were.. and how proud Aunt Liz was of her great grandson Everytime his dad fixed my car I would see Paul and play with him. After his parents separated, the extended family did not get to see too much of him.. but we certainly knew all about his deeds and acomplishments from Grandma Annette. It was just about a year ago that a lot of us got to see and meet Paul as an adult.. What a lovely young man..All of us were so impressed by his caring for his two brothers, grandparents and the rest of the family. What young man today makes a fuss over a 95 year old lady Well Paul did over my mother who is his great great aunt Tannie (Annie). He genuinely seemed happy to meet her and when we were leaving he came over and kissed her and told her how happy he was to have met her again. I also remember the toast he gave.. saying that he thought his grandparents looked like they should have been celebrating their 25th anniversary.. not their 50th. Elaine & John, Paul and Cathy I commend you for upbringing you gave your son...none of you could have done it alone... each of you contributed something to make Paul the man he was... may God Bless all of you and yur children. All of you are in my prayers. Love Little Marie
I was emailed this site and I'd encourage all to view this beautiful tribute to the victims of the WTC. http://bayridge.com/tribute.swf I hope you have also seen this site, which shows the world standing in solidarity with us during this time of tragedy. http://www.axisdesigns.com/thanks/
i will always remember you, mr. battaglia.
I am a binghamton graduate. I didn't know Paul, but some of my friends were close friends of his. I always saw him around campus and I can honestly say that he always had a smile on his face. My prayers are with his family. I hope God guides you through this difficult time.
I am a Binghamton U. 2000 grad who only met Paul once. Nevertheless I have visited this web site countless times since the tragedy and am constantly affected by what people write, and by the fact that this innocent life is no longer. My boyfriend was friendly with Paul and I was introduced to Paul this past summer when in Union Square park. We bumped into him and I immediately recognized him from school. Since I first heard that he was missing, and of this web site, I have visited the site frequently, and to this day I still get chills thinking about the fact that he's not here. From now on I will not be able to think about or go to Union Square park without thinking of Paul. Though I didn't really know him, I too have been affected by his death. I am praying for his family and friends, and everyone who was lucky enough to have met Paul.
I have never met paul, in person. Not on the phone either. I was only honored to hear his name after these tragic events unfolded. But I've known who Paul is for years. He is in all of us. He is the way we feel when when we see our loved ones. He is the hope we feel when all we see is despair. My heart is with paul & his family and friends. And all though i never spoke to him or saw him smile, I hear his words and his laughter everyday.
I didn't know Paul, although I am also a graduate of Binghamton University so in a way I feel as though Paul is family. I got together with one of my best friends from college this past weekend and as we sat outside in the warm sunlight she told me about paul's website. she expressed how painful it was to read the hope, worry and ultimately sorrow regarding paul's death. my friend and i spoke of how much our world has changed in one month. we shared our hopes of living closer together (she's in d.c. and i'm in n.y.) and being able to simply "hang out" more, little things that friends love like "doing lunch", and larger things like someday raising our children in the same area. i have reached out to many friends and family members over the past month, so, although i cannot fathom the pain that paul's family and friends must be experiencing right now, you must know that paul has brought us all closer-the binghamton university community...new york city...the country. in two weeks i will be running in the new york city marathon, through the streets of the city where so many suffered. somehow i am hoping that it will be the beginning of the healing process for me. please know that paul will be in my heart that day. like so many of you that knew paul have written-paul seemed destined for greatness. perhaps this, paul's story, is in a certain way his "destiny". the reflections on paul and his life have truly touched me and also given me hope...please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you
Dear Elaine, I just read through Paul's guestbook and I just wanted to add a few words. When I see you I never know what to say. I'm always afraid I will say the wrong thing and make you feel worse instead of better. I know right now that there really isn't any way to ease your pain, only time can do that. They say that time heals all wounds, but we know that isn't the case - it just makes it easier to bear. What happened to Paul was a horrible senseless tragedy and I admire you for the way you are handling yourself through all of this. I am praying for you and John and Kristen and Eric and Jerry. I know that Paul is in heaven and is happy and that he wants you all to be happy too. Even though his life was taken so young from all the emails I read and all the people who attended his memorial it is plain to see that in his very short life he touched more lives than most people do living 80 years. That is an accomplishment and you should be proud of him and yourself for raising such a wonderful human being. Remember, I here for you whenever you need me. Love, Ann
Although this is not my first visit to this guestbook, it is the first time I'm leaving a message. My name is Cathy Battaglia and I am Paul's stepmother. His father Paul and I have been married 18 years and we have two boys, Michael, 16, and Matthew, 12. At first I was too grief stricken to even read the wonderful messages left here in Paul's guestbook, let alone write something. But now that I have read them I knew that I had to leave a message also. The outpouring of love and support found in these messages is almost beyond belief, but knowing Paul has touched so many lives is really very easy to believe. I first met Paul when he was 3 1/2. He was the most adorable child and very precocious. After his dad and I married, he was a part of a large and loving extended family. He was an only child for 6 1/2 years until his brother Michael was born, then quickly followed by Kristen, Matthew, and Eric. Although he was not a part of our daily lives, we have many fond memories of times spent together: Chrismtmas Eves, Father's Days, birthdays, Baptisms, Communions, as well as time spent at our country home in the Poconos. His brother Michael adored him and asked him to be his sponsor for Confirmation. Paul's dad and I are extremely proud of all his accomplishments. He grew up to be a generous, loving and caring person. His computer expertise has helped many a Battaglia relative over the years. When his brother Matthew was diagnosed with a blood disorder in the spring of 2000, Paul was at the hospital frequently, cheering him up. When Paul saw how distraught I was, he asked his mom Elaine, who is a nurse, to call ma and give some advice. As you all know , he had a huge heart. When Matthew was released from the hospital we made plans to go on a Disney Cruise, courtesy of the Make-A-Wish Foundation. At first, they said Paul was too old to come along as a sibling. Matthew put his foot down and said he wasn't going anywhere without his big brother. That vacation, in April of this year, was Paul's first cruise and we all had the best time. At the time we never realized it would be our last trip together, but now we will always have those wonderful memories to look back on. Paul's death has left a tremendous hole in our hearts. We are consoled by the fact that we are not alone in our grief, as he was loved by so many and touched so many people in his ultimately short life. Paul, we miss you and will always love you. Love, Dad, Cathy, Michael and Matthew
Words can't describe the grief and sorrow that all of us have been living through. My co-worker and I are both Binghamton Alumni, as well as Marsh employees, and words cannot describe how difficult it has been to pull through all that has happened. I send my heartfelt condolences to the Battaglia family. Although I have never met Paul, the fact that 1) he was a fellow Binghamton alumnus and 2) an MMC employee provides a connection that requires no explanation. I've lost quite a few acquaintences and several good friends in this tragedy. It will be difficult as we try to move on, but I know that this is what those that have left us would desire. There is not a day that goes by when I look through the midtown Marsh office and I think of everyone taken, so quickly. This is true for not only myself, but every colleague, every friend, every New Yorker. My prayers are with all of you. Rei
Dear Paul, I never met you, but looked up your picture in the yearbook and recognized you. I just want to tell you and your family that I am deeply saddened by your passing. I was a few blocks away from the trade center on 9/11, and saw all of the unspeakable. Instantly, as I saw what was going on, and was running for my life, I thought of the people in the trade center, the people just like you and me. The ones who worked hard in school to make something of ourselves, and were excited to begin exciting careers in the real world. We were the ones who dressed in BR clothes, ate at the newly opened xando at the bottom of the trade center, and drank at windows on the world to celebrate special occassions. I looked at the photos of your office on your website. Your view was spectacular. I can see from the photos that you were very proud to work at your office, and loved it. You had every right to be proud. You had a wonderful job, and worked in one of the best buildings in the world. It was a truly beautiful building. May the ones who did this to us-PAY. From reading the entries on this site, I can see what a wonderful person you were. I wish we had an opportunity to chat. God Bless you, your family, friends and America.
This is not my first visit to Paul's guestbook. I've left some messages before, and I visit often, just marvelling at the number of lives Paul has touched. I'm Paul's Aunt Carol on his father, Paul Battaglia's side of the family. There are so many wonderful notes about Paul, and so many kind words sent to his mother Elaine, his step-father John, sister Kristen and his brother Er